Friday 8 January 2021

What a difference a year makes

2020 has felt so surreal at times, the stuff of fiction. And like a sci-fi or horror movie the dramatic twists and turns just don't seem to stop (not just the covid ones, it’s truly shocking what is happening over in America).

In thinking about how much things have changed, I looked at last year’s blog to reflect on what I was talking about twelve months ago. Perhaps unsurprisingly, it was very much focussed on all the usual new year resolutions, ambitions and aspirations.

It’s understandable of course that no-one seems to be bothering with any of this for 2021. In the aftermath of the last distressing and tough year, and especially now being in the eye of the storm of another pandemic wave, setting goals feels a bit futile and also a tad overwhelming to be honest. Just getting through the next few months is going to be hard enough.

If 2020 has taught us anything, it’s that we need to cut ourselves some slack. After a year that thoroughly upended our lives, the most “typical” resolutions – to travel more, spend more time with friends, start a new hobby - seem a little frivolous if not impossible to achieve.

This year instead, I’m focusing on the ‘here and now’ and what I ‘value’ most. So, I’m concentrating on maintaining my energy and my health, which includes filling up on the ‘feel good’ factor of being outside (and not feeling guilty with the big slice of cake after a walk) and a newly discovered love of 'pottering'.

With the restrictions over Christmas, I was forced into a much less social break, and surprisingly I really enjoyed doing nothing more for a couple of days than getting up late, sitting around in my pyjamas and overloading on telly and food. Of course, I don't think my clothes could cope with a further year of that, but there is definitely something to be said about the value of pottering! 

In last year’s blog, I talked about 2020 being the Year of the Rat which signifies spirit, flexibility and courage. The rat has an energetic and tenacious nature, which you have demonstrated in bucket loads during the pandemic. Our value of ingenuity has been running through your veins, and we’ll no doubt need to draw deeply on this value over 2021 as well. It’s helped us make so much progress, even though it’s been seriously tough.

And so now as we move into the Year of the Ox, it feels quite relevant again as the ox denotes dependability, strength, determination and diligence. Determination is another of our values and all the ox’s characteristics will have to manifest deeply in all of us in the coming months. The ox is “grounded, loyal, gentle and trustworthy”, which are attributes I regularly hear people use to praise you from the rooftops. 

It seems entirely appropriate that another tough year is symbolised by a beast of burden! You have carried, and continue to carry, an enormous responsibility for keeping services going for the benefit of people who rely on you despite the heavy load and risk to you personally. I am so very proud of everything you are doing.

Whilst it has felt very strange saying Happy New Year to colleagues this week, given we have started the year in very familiar but worrying territory, there is hope on the horizon with the vaccines. A successful vaccine programme will solve both the health and economic crisis. Once enough jabs have been administered, the pressure on the NHS will begin to lift, restrictions will be eased, businesses will be allowed to reopen and the economy will recover. We will hopefully be able to get back to some semblance of 'normal' life before this time next year.

I know some of you have already been able to access the vaccine from hospital hubs, but we have been asked to prepare to be a vaccine hub ourselves from next Monday and to try to vaccinate as many of our front line and at risk staff by the end of January. We are currently training staff to deliver vaccines and, as soon as we receive supplies, we will be off. We will give people more details as soon as we can.

So although things might get worse before they get better, they will get better. It makes me think of the M. Scott Peck book ‘The Road Less Travelled’. He starts with the sentence ‘Life is difficult’ and goes on to explain that, when we accept that, we can develop the tools to cope and move beyond it. Like the ox, we need to stay positive and stand firm for this last leg and try and get through it as best we can.

So, let’s keep on looking after ourselves and each other. If there are things the Board could be practically doing to help people get through the next few months, we want to know about them. We have NHS charities money to help with your wellbeing and have previously done comfort packs to front line teams.

We’ve already got feedback about what might help to support your wellbeing through various different channels, but please keep your thoughts and ideas coming through. You can let us know through our staff networks, via the communications team or the new open forum section on our intranet.

Here's to a more hopeful 2021.

Best wishes

Claire

You can follow me on Twitter @ClaireMolloy2 

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